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      Thank you for taking time to visit my blog. I do hope you will have an interesting adventure as you read my posts. Feel free to send me an email for inquiries or any other thing.

On this blog, I will focus at discussing different topics relating to life in this world we live in. Key Topics will be Relationships and Motivational writings.

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Posted by on July 26, 2011 in relationships

 

FREEDOM FROM LUST

YOU CAN BE FREE!

 

Many people today look at me and they admire my commitment to the lord. They ask me questions to most of which I have no answer. I have no answers because all that I am today is a total, complete and undeniable work of God’s grace over my life.

I was a messed up boy who grow up in the township of Matero in Lusaka Zambia; central Africa. I used to be a very rude boy, my mouth was vulgar and I delighted in being unruly other than following acceptable ways of life.

Because of wrong company, I found myself in taverns (bars) dancing to rumba music and sometimes there I would be, drawn to viewing what people then called blue movies. Secretly I spent hours at home cinemas watching movies with explicit sexual visuals but no one knew about it.

Yes I used to go to church just like you do. I was always at church every Sunday attending Sunday school and Monday I was in the cinema indulging my mind in eliciting viewership of X rated material. The impact of those movies was felt later after I completely surrendered my life to Jesus. Those horrible scenes played back in my mind like a rewind video. The pictures were so vivid even when I closed my eyes to worship the lord. It wasn’t easy to break free from the habit that had now got a better part of my life. On fire for Jesus, I still struggled to overcome the temptation of getting back to my old ways whenever an opportunity presented itself. It was rough and hard. It was never easy.

Day by day, a sense of guilt and shame permeated my soul. I felt I was not good enough to be loved by God. How could God love a boy so bound to the power of lust. Was there any reason for God to love me? In my mind I concluded there was none though I clearly saw in the Bible that God never judged me by the content of my pass but by the presence of his grace in the now. It was so amazing to me that even after coming from a powerful church service the compelling force of lust drew me to go back to my vomit until one day I said to myself, I am not going to spend time trying to figure out what’s wrong with me but I will now concentrate on what has been made right about me since I have given myself to Jesus. This was my turning point. This was my path way to freedom and this was my journey to the days of my deliverance from the powers of darkness.

See, were as when we humans go to buy products from the mall choose the best looking items e.g. the fresh fruits, God does the opposite when he looks around the world for someone he wants to use. He picks the messed up like you and I. But that doesn’t matter; God is able to pick you and me, clean us up and makes us into better people. He does not choose you because you are good. You do not have to be a  good person. You do not have to smart. You just need to come as messed up as you are and God is specialized at fixing damaged lives. He helped me overcome, he fixed me and, made me a pastor. Today I am free. Though the temptations come my way, I day by day trust the Lord that if he helped me not to indulge myself yesterday, he will help me today.

Believe me you don’t have to be good. You don’t have to fix yourself before you can return to God. Just the way you are, come to Jesus. Bring all your broken parts he will fix them for free. You don’t have to pay for your sins, Jesus did it for you already and all you need to do is come to him in all sincerity and ask him to do something about your life and if you do your life will never be the same.

Please feel free to send me an email if you need someone to talk to.

pastormvula@gmail.com

 
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Posted by on February 14, 2012 in Chirstians devotion

 

HOW GOD DELIVERED ME FROM LUST

Many people today look at me and they admire my commitment to the lord. They ask me questions to most of which I have no answer. I have no answers because all that I am today is a total, complete and undeniable work of God’s grace over my life.
I was a messed up boy who grow in the township of Matero in Lusaka Zambia; central Africa. I used to be very rude boy, my mouth was vulgar and I delighted in being unruly other than following acceptable ways of life.
Because of wrong company, I found my same in tavern (bars) dancing to rhumba music and sometimes there I would be drawn to viewing what people then called blue movies. Secretly I sneaked spent hours at home cinemas watching movies with explicit sexual visuals but no one knew about it.
Yes used to go to church just like you do. I was always at church every Sunday attending Sunday school and Monday was in the cinema indulging my mind in eliciting viewership of X rated material. The impact of those movies was felt later after I completely surrendered my life to Jesus. Those horrible scenes played back in my mind like a rewind video. The pictures were so vivid even when I closed my eyes to worship the lord. It wasn’t easy to break free from the habit that had now got a better part of my life. On fire for Jesus, I still struggled to overcome the temptation of getting back to my old ways whenever an opportunity presented itself. It was rough and hard. It was never easy.
Day by day, a sense of guilt and shame permeated my soul. I felt I was good enough to be loved by God. How could God love a boy so bound to the power of lust. Was there any reason for God to love me? In my mind I concluded there was none though I clearly saw in the bible that God never judged me by the content of my pass but by the presence of his grace in the now. It was so amazing to me that even after coming from a powerful church service the compelling force of lust drew e to go back to my vomit until one day I said to myself, I am not going to spend time trying to figure out what’s wrong with me but I will now concentrate on what has been made right about me since I have given myself to Jesus. This was my turning point. This was my path way to freedom and this was my journey to the days of my deliverance from the powers of darkness.
See, were as when we humans go to buy products from the mall choose the best looking items e.g. the fresh fruits, God does the opposite when he looks around the world for someone he wants to use. He picks the messed up like me. Maybe you are or whew too. It doesn’t matter; he picked you and me and cleans us up and, makes us into better people. How does not choose you because you are good. You do not have to be good. You do not have to smart. You just need to come as messed up as you are and God is specialized at fixing damaged lives. He help me overcome, he fixed me and, made me a pastor. Today I am free. Though the temptations come my way I day by day trust the Lord that if he helped me not to indulge myself yesterday, he will help me today.
Believe me you don’t have to be good. You don’t have to fix yourself before you can return to God. Just the way you are come to Jesus. Bring all your broken parts he will fix them for free. You don’t have to pay for your sins, Jesus did it for you already and all you need to do is come to him in all sincerity and ask him to do something about your life and if you do your life will never be the same.
Please feel free to send me an email if you need someone to talk to.
pastormvula@gmail.com

 
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Posted by on February 13, 2012 in relationships

 

HEARTBROKEN?????????? HERE IS A SOLUTION!

GETTING OVER A BROKEN RELATOINSHIP

RESIST THE NEWS OF THE HEARTBREAK! This should be your first reaction to the bad news of the ending of your relationship. When you partner tells you it’s over, it’s not time to easily accept but you must resist the bad news. You must fight for your love. Tell him or her that you are not for the idea and that you are not ready to break up with them. Beg, cry, plead but don’t be foolish. Yes, I said it. Don’t be foolish! After begging, crying, and pleading, you should be sensitive to the emotional reactions of your partner to your desire to keep the relationship alive.

Let me just tell you the truth, under normal circumstances, a man or woman in love will not find it so easy to let go of their partner. If he does, there is an external motivation for doing so. Yes, if you are sensitive enough, that bad news should not come as a surprise. You saw that thing coming. Remember you started by complaining about how busy he/she suddenly became;  his/her phone became invisible,  you saw the strange sms’ and he/she had time for others but not you and off course there was always an explanation for the change. But now you know why?

Why should you resist the bad news? You should because when all completely fails to work out when you are gone, there will not be a motivation for coming back. We often fail to move on because we feel we have not done enough to make things work but when efforts are made, we slowly start to develop an indifferent attitude to the situation and that is a key for moving on from that hurt.

Let me bring it home now. Do you remember what you felt when someone dear to you died? Sorry to remind you of that sad experience but let me use the phases of the emotional experience during a funeral to help you get over that heart break.

  • Shock and denial (bad news) – if the news of your partner quitting the relationship does not shock you, you are living in denial. At this stage, you will have a lot of question on your mind just like we ask ourselves questions when someone dies. But look, no amount of questions will change the situation at the moment so begin to prepare to face reality- face the source of the pain.
  • Face the source of the pain(body viewing)

Face your partner- don’t be scared of going to face your partner; yes they have caused you pain but don’t allow them to end the relationship on phone or any other means other than facing you head on. Let him/her tell it to your face that it is over.

  • burry the source of the pain

When they do, thank them for the time you spent with them and in pain, burry whatever you have had with them. This means, gather whatever could remind you of them and destroy them or give them away or do whatever you can to keep such things out of reach.

  • Shift your focus

What you focus on is always magnified. When you shift your focus, you will slowly shift your affection. At this point, you will experience withdrawal symptoms but don’t succumb to them.

  • don’t pack all the eggs in one basket

if some eggs have gone bad you don’t mix them up with good ones do you? The temptation that comes when you are disappointed is to put all men/ladies in one basket. “All guys are the same. They are cheaters” you say. dah! We are not the same and not all guys are cheaters! It’s not true that all people are the same. People are different and you must appreciate that fact. Always remember that there is someone out there who can love you for who you are so begin to create room in your heart for them to get in. Forget that good for nothing man that left you for someone else. In fact maybe you were even not good enough for them so do yourself some favour and be the good that someone else is looking for now!

 
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Posted by on October 18, 2011 in relationships

 

attract your man NOW!

If you are going to attract the right kind of man in your life you must do some things that men are attracted to. Below are top seven ways to attract a good guy:

Wear clothes that fit you so well.

Men are attracted by what they see. If what they see is good, they will want to know why? Invest some good money in quality clothes from a good label. Stop this idea of wanting to always buy the cheapest clothes in town.

Put a smile on your beautiful face even if you think it is not please!

There is a magnet that pulls men when women smile. Men stay away from omen whose faces look like they have been washed pure lemon juice. Shows some brushed teeth and tame your tongue.

Smell good

Buy some good perfume and let its aroma advertise your presence.  Smelling bad is bad!

Know the hobbies of the man you like

Show interest in what interests the man you like. When you show interest in what interests the kind of man you want, he will enjoy being with you.

Don’t waste time with play boys

Play boys are guys that want to spend time with you but have no definite reason why? You don’t have anymore time to waste so don’t allow some funny boy to waste it on your behalf

Be positive about your looks

Even if you know that one of your ears is bigger than the other, don’t waste time wishing they were equal. Love your beautiful teeth and always expose them with a big smile. What you think about yourself is what people will see.

Praise men for little efforts.

Men love it when their efforts are recognised and appreciated. Men are put off by women that are always critical when they open their mouths.

 

 

 

 

 

 
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Posted by on October 18, 2011 in relationships

 

Did you know, monkeys have 12 hairs at any one time

 
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Posted by on October 18, 2011 in Jokes

 

THE DEVIL AND HIS DEMONS

One day the devil walk up excited because he dreamed that for unknown reason he was allowed into heaven on the judgement day. The dreams even reminded him of his beauty before he was kicked out of heaven years ago so he said to his demons:

DEVIL: Bring me a mirror, I want to gaze at my beauty. Its a while since I admired my self.

The demon of fooling replied

DEMON: sir, you dont want to look in that mirror.

DEVIL: you are fired!

DEMON: padon my stupidity sir. my reaction is instinctive. am a fool and you do remember that I am more like you sir

DEVIL: Demon of flattery, bring me a mirror

DEMON: Right away your majesty.

The demon bro

 
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Posted by on August 29, 2011 in relationships

 

SEX IN RELATIONSHIPS

One of the mejor reasons why people get into relationships is resexual attraction. Humans are sexual beings. But sex if not properly hundled has pottential to crush the heart. Many people expecially women, have been hurt and their hearts filled with feelings of betrayal because the prince charmy they thought a man they trusted was, just used them sexually and left them.

There is nothing so depressing for women as when they are used sexually and many have expressed this view strongly. Inspite of the diverstating consequences of sexual involvement before marriage in relationship, many have claimed it cements relationships but the truth of the matter is that sex outside marriage is the reasons of the rising statistics of devorce in our society today.

sex outside marriage does the followng:

  1. It weakens trust in a relationship.
  2. It is a seed for unfaithfulness in marriage
  3. It brings unneccesary worries such as the fear of pregnance and sexually transmitted diseases
  4. It deprives partners of self respect.

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Posted by on August 29, 2011 in relationships